I've been hearing this a lot lately as I hunt down former co-workers and long lost friends to be professional and personal references for the job hunting that I've been doing lately. This is always their reaction to hearing how old Caeden, my 7 year old son, is now. :-) :-) After thinking about it for a bit, I think I know how to answer this question. :-) :-)
We all know that there are times when time seems to slow down for us, as well as speed up. Below are a few examples of when times seems to change:
1. Time slows down during labor. Especially when it's a difficult and long labor.
2. Time speeds up as you watch your newborn discover the world around him. Discovering his hands for the first time, his foot - and having to try to taste that foot as well. :-)
3. Time slows down during each night time feeding and diaper changing during those first few months.
4. Time speeds up during those few precious minutes of sleep when the baby is actually asleep as well.
5. Time slows down when you have to put your baby in time-out for the first time.
6. Time speeds up when you get those adorable baby hugs and kisses.
7. Time slows down while the bus pulls away from the stop for the very first time with your baby inside.
8. Time speeds up during birthday parties, Christmas and summer vacations as you spend time with your kiddo.
9. Time slows down when a difficult homework assignment makes your kid grumpy and starts to cry, yet you need to be firm and consistent to make sure it gets done.
10. Time speeds up on weekends when you get to sleep in or get woken up earlier than normal for cuddle and play time with your kiddo.
11. Time slows down when your baby gets sick - with the simple cold or with a diagnosis of Sensory Processing Disorder which caused so much weight loss.
12. Time speeds up when you realize that your baby no longer sounds like a baby in his pronunciation or speech. He sounds like a real person!
13. Time slows down during the few quiet moments after bed time for the kiddo but before your own bed time.
14. Time speeds up as you run around each morning trying to get lunches packed, breakfast made and hair tame and still hope that your kid picked out a decent outfit to dress in for school.
Now these are just a few examples of how time speeds up and when it slows down. My personal theory is that most of the fun and good times usually feel like time passes by too fast. So, as a parent you find yourself wondering where the heck time has gone - I see it as a sign that there have been more good times during your kids childhood. :-) :-)
So, where did the time go? I'm happy to ask and answer that question! :-) :-)
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Lady of Hay
Okay, last night when I was talking about destroying yarn to see how much stress it can take, I mentioned finishing a really good book. It's called Lady of Hay by Barbara Erskine. I downloaded it as a free book through Amazon.com - I had heard of it through a newsletter called Pixel of Ink. Wow, this site and newsletter has me stocked up on free or really cheap books to last quite a few years! :-)
Anyway, back to the book...
I almost didn't download this book because I thought the title was kind of weak - and well, it is. It almost sounds like a cheap romance novel. Oh, but this book is so far from one of those sleazy romance novels. Once you get all of the characters straight, it's so hard to put the book down! I was reading it a little at a time when I first opened it and it took more than a week to read it. I do have to say that the last half of the book was read in just a couple days though.
Okay, so here is the basic concept of the story: The main character, Jo, is a reporter who is researching the whole concept of using hypnosis to regress people to find out if (or about) their previous lives. Well, Jo finds out that she did live before as a noblewoman in the 12th century. Then there is an interesting twist to the whole story... apparently a few of the main players of Jo's previous self from 800 years ago have also found new lives in the 20th (current time in the story is 1985) century and are trying to change what had happened before.
Once that whole twist was introduced it was a little confusing remembering who everyone was and how they played in the story, but once I got my characters straightened out, I was able to pick up speed in the story.
I was really impressed with the amount of research that went into this book! I was reading the timeline and authors notes about this book and the characters from the 12th century were real! Now, the story that she wrote for them may not have been, but she work off of speculation and legends from the area. I love knowing that a writer put that kind of effort into an story. It makes me appreciate it even more. :-) :-)
What is also fun about this whole story is the concept of reincarnation. Do you believe it or not? I guess it all depends on what kind of religion you've grown up with or what kind of religion you are now... but after reading this book it kind of did make me think. :-) And thinking about it is also half the fun. Coming up with all of the "What if..." questions and wondering. If it were really possible to get hypnotized and regressed like this book talks about, it would be a cool way of jumping back in time to see what life was really like back then... "then" being whatever time frames your previous life lived. :-) I love to read about history and historical novels like this one, but sometimes the details are just not detailed enough. To tell you the truth, I've always wondered how certain hygiene habits that we take for granted today were dealt with back then. Daily showers? Deodorant? Dental floss? Feminine hygiene products for menstruation? Not very many books talk about that - at least none of the books I've read. :-) :-)
I also loved the writing style for this writer. It was smooth but not over worded. Maybe that's not the right word I'm looking for... I don't believe that something can be over worded. It's kind of like trying to tell someone that a certain piece of music has too many notes. But some authors take description a little overboard. Some people like it; I personally don't. With this writer, I got a good sense to where she was and what the castle, room or whatever she was describing and the actions and feelings of the characters were excellent. When Mathilda was starting to suffer from arthritis, I could almost feel her pain. The stress and anguish she must have felt when she was abandoned by her husband when he didn't show up with the money he owed the king... it's painful to read that kind of sadness but the writing was so well done that I could almost imagine what she was feeling.
I do have to warn you though, this book is long. I don't know how long because Kindle doesn't give me page numbers, but it did take me a while to read it. I don't think she would have been able to write such a good book in less pages. I personally think that she could have gone into just a wee bit more detail in certain areas, but the book is a wonderful story either way. :-) :-) I was a little sad that the story didn't turn out like I wanted, but then, I didn't write the book now, did I? :-)
I have a feeling that this book may have been written around the same time as the book's timeline - 1985 - so this book may have been out for a while. There has to be someone that has to have read it that would like to talk to me about it.... :-) Please feel free to email or leave a comment. :-) :-)
Anyway, back to the book...
I almost didn't download this book because I thought the title was kind of weak - and well, it is. It almost sounds like a cheap romance novel. Oh, but this book is so far from one of those sleazy romance novels. Once you get all of the characters straight, it's so hard to put the book down! I was reading it a little at a time when I first opened it and it took more than a week to read it. I do have to say that the last half of the book was read in just a couple days though.
Okay, so here is the basic concept of the story: The main character, Jo, is a reporter who is researching the whole concept of using hypnosis to regress people to find out if (or about) their previous lives. Well, Jo finds out that she did live before as a noblewoman in the 12th century. Then there is an interesting twist to the whole story... apparently a few of the main players of Jo's previous self from 800 years ago have also found new lives in the 20th (current time in the story is 1985) century and are trying to change what had happened before.
Once that whole twist was introduced it was a little confusing remembering who everyone was and how they played in the story, but once I got my characters straightened out, I was able to pick up speed in the story.
I was really impressed with the amount of research that went into this book! I was reading the timeline and authors notes about this book and the characters from the 12th century were real! Now, the story that she wrote for them may not have been, but she work off of speculation and legends from the area. I love knowing that a writer put that kind of effort into an story. It makes me appreciate it even more. :-) :-)
What is also fun about this whole story is the concept of reincarnation. Do you believe it or not? I guess it all depends on what kind of religion you've grown up with or what kind of religion you are now... but after reading this book it kind of did make me think. :-) And thinking about it is also half the fun. Coming up with all of the "What if..." questions and wondering. If it were really possible to get hypnotized and regressed like this book talks about, it would be a cool way of jumping back in time to see what life was really like back then... "then" being whatever time frames your previous life lived. :-) I love to read about history and historical novels like this one, but sometimes the details are just not detailed enough. To tell you the truth, I've always wondered how certain hygiene habits that we take for granted today were dealt with back then. Daily showers? Deodorant? Dental floss? Feminine hygiene products for menstruation? Not very many books talk about that - at least none of the books I've read. :-) :-)
I also loved the writing style for this writer. It was smooth but not over worded. Maybe that's not the right word I'm looking for... I don't believe that something can be over worded. It's kind of like trying to tell someone that a certain piece of music has too many notes. But some authors take description a little overboard. Some people like it; I personally don't. With this writer, I got a good sense to where she was and what the castle, room or whatever she was describing and the actions and feelings of the characters were excellent. When Mathilda was starting to suffer from arthritis, I could almost feel her pain. The stress and anguish she must have felt when she was abandoned by her husband when he didn't show up with the money he owed the king... it's painful to read that kind of sadness but the writing was so well done that I could almost imagine what she was feeling.
I do have to warn you though, this book is long. I don't know how long because Kindle doesn't give me page numbers, but it did take me a while to read it. I don't think she would have been able to write such a good book in less pages. I personally think that she could have gone into just a wee bit more detail in certain areas, but the book is a wonderful story either way. :-) :-) I was a little sad that the story didn't turn out like I wanted, but then, I didn't write the book now, did I? :-)
I have a feeling that this book may have been written around the same time as the book's timeline - 1985 - so this book may have been out for a while. There has to be someone that has to have read it that would like to talk to me about it.... :-) Please feel free to email or leave a comment. :-) :-)
Tuesday, August 9, 2011
How do you know?
Oh my goodness... I just finished one of the most awesome books since the Promises to Keep series. But I'll have to tell you about that later. I don't have the energy to write about that now.
Amazingly enough, though, I do feel like writing about a common problem that so many of us may have with so much of the yarn in our yarn stashes/reserves/pets/whatever you want to call it. :-) :-) Let's say that you want to use up some of that stash on a baby blanket or baby toy but you're not sure what these various little balls of yarn are or know if they'll be strong enough? I can tell most of the time just by look and feel (and sometimes memory) on what brand each ball of yarn may be. But sometimes it's not as easy - especially if you've just inherited yarn from someone else's stash. :-)
So, other than the usual burning test to see if the yarn is acrylic or wool, you can do the stress test that a friend taught me years ago (can you believe that I almost typed 'yarns ago'? :-) :-)
I like to use this especially when I'm making something that has a good chance of being abused. Baby sweater/toy/blanket. It can even work for socks or mittens. :-) You need to use a yarn that is going to be fairly sturdy and will not disintegrate too easily with lots of abuse. So, you get a couple yards of yarn and try the following:
Make a chain (finger or you can use your crochet hook) for the entire length of yarn. Make a chain with that chain, and if you can, make one last chain. Make sure when you finish off at the end of each chain that you don't tighten it up too tight because you'll need to take them out next.
Holding the chain in your other hand as tight as you can, pull chain to undo it (or frog it). When you hold the chain tightly in your other hand, it causes a lot of friction in the yarn. At this point, you should have seen a few fragments or shedding of the yarn. If it hasn't fallen apart completely, then you know that the yarn is a little strong. Unravel the second layer of chain, and possibly the third (all while holding tightly in the other hand), then look at what you have left. The yarn will look like total crud. Not much gets past this unscathed, it will have untwisted a bit, it will looks a bit fluffy where most of the abuse was given... grab an end in each hand and give it a nice tug. Does it fall apart or break? No? Well, then you have got yourself a really strong yarn! :-) This will probably survive the abuse that any baby/toddler/child can give a blanket, toy or sweater on a hourly basis. Make a quick swatch with this bit of yarn, and no, it does not have to be in the stitch that you will be using. Just stockinette or single crochet will do, then wash it. It doesn't matter what you wash it in, you want to see if it will survive the gazillion washes that most kid stuff must endure in it's lifetime. Then, throw it in the dryer - I personally throw these swatches in with the whites where it not only takes further abuse by being washed in hot water, but also bleach. Then, you'll undo one of the ends and holding it tightly again, take it apart. How does the yarn hold up now? :-) :-)
I've only known two brands that have survived both the chain torture test and the wash test, but I'm not going to tell you. Put your favorite brands to the test and let me know. :-)
I will need to tell you that most of that fun and fancy lace weight yarn falls apart really easy. But then, I'm not going to spend a million hours on a lace shawl and give it to a baby now, am I? :-) I have also noticed that home hand spun is stronger than heck and back, but others don't survive the first layer of torture. So, what kind of fiber is stronger? Or can it all go back to the spinner? :-) :-) Don't know, I just do the test. :-) :-)
I need to get batteries for my camera and take some decent pics to post. I'd love to hear your comments though so please share! :-)
Amazingly enough, though, I do feel like writing about a common problem that so many of us may have with so much of the yarn in our yarn stashes/reserves/pets/whatever you want to call it. :-) :-) Let's say that you want to use up some of that stash on a baby blanket or baby toy but you're not sure what these various little balls of yarn are or know if they'll be strong enough? I can tell most of the time just by look and feel (and sometimes memory) on what brand each ball of yarn may be. But sometimes it's not as easy - especially if you've just inherited yarn from someone else's stash. :-)
So, other than the usual burning test to see if the yarn is acrylic or wool, you can do the stress test that a friend taught me years ago (can you believe that I almost typed 'yarns ago'? :-) :-)
I like to use this especially when I'm making something that has a good chance of being abused. Baby sweater/toy/blanket. It can even work for socks or mittens. :-) You need to use a yarn that is going to be fairly sturdy and will not disintegrate too easily with lots of abuse. So, you get a couple yards of yarn and try the following:
Make a chain (finger or you can use your crochet hook) for the entire length of yarn. Make a chain with that chain, and if you can, make one last chain. Make sure when you finish off at the end of each chain that you don't tighten it up too tight because you'll need to take them out next.
Holding the chain in your other hand as tight as you can, pull chain to undo it (or frog it). When you hold the chain tightly in your other hand, it causes a lot of friction in the yarn. At this point, you should have seen a few fragments or shedding of the yarn. If it hasn't fallen apart completely, then you know that the yarn is a little strong. Unravel the second layer of chain, and possibly the third (all while holding tightly in the other hand), then look at what you have left. The yarn will look like total crud. Not much gets past this unscathed, it will have untwisted a bit, it will looks a bit fluffy where most of the abuse was given... grab an end in each hand and give it a nice tug. Does it fall apart or break? No? Well, then you have got yourself a really strong yarn! :-) This will probably survive the abuse that any baby/toddler/child can give a blanket, toy or sweater on a hourly basis. Make a quick swatch with this bit of yarn, and no, it does not have to be in the stitch that you will be using. Just stockinette or single crochet will do, then wash it. It doesn't matter what you wash it in, you want to see if it will survive the gazillion washes that most kid stuff must endure in it's lifetime. Then, throw it in the dryer - I personally throw these swatches in with the whites where it not only takes further abuse by being washed in hot water, but also bleach. Then, you'll undo one of the ends and holding it tightly again, take it apart. How does the yarn hold up now? :-) :-)
I've only known two brands that have survived both the chain torture test and the wash test, but I'm not going to tell you. Put your favorite brands to the test and let me know. :-)
I will need to tell you that most of that fun and fancy lace weight yarn falls apart really easy. But then, I'm not going to spend a million hours on a lace shawl and give it to a baby now, am I? :-) I have also noticed that home hand spun is stronger than heck and back, but others don't survive the first layer of torture. So, what kind of fiber is stronger? Or can it all go back to the spinner? :-) :-) Don't know, I just do the test. :-) :-)
I need to get batteries for my camera and take some decent pics to post. I'd love to hear your comments though so please share! :-)
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